Spice it Up!

Are you bored with your intimate life and want to spice it up? We often repeat what we think “works” but what we repeat overtime can become boring. 

When it comes to your intimate relationship, it’s important to communicate openly, honestly and gently to ensure that both partners are comfortable and enthusiastic about any activities they choose to engage in.

Here are some ideas that some couples find to be fun and exciting way to “spice it up”:

1. Massage: Giving each other massages can be a relaxing and intimate way to connect physically, do this clothed or unclothed.

2. Bathing Together: Sharing a bath or shower can be both sensual and a great way to relax together. Be sure to do this intentionally. You can wash each other like it’s the last time you’ll ever see them. Or play sexy music and feed each other cupcakes while taking a bath together.

3. Dancing: Slow dancing or even trying out some more sensual dance styles with sexy music can help couples feel closer and more connected.

4. Role-Playing: Some couples enjoy exploring different roles and scenarios to spice things up. Ex. One of you is the teacher and the other is the teacher’s pet.

5. Reading Erotica Together: Sharing erotic literature can be a fun way to get in the mood and explore fantasies together. It’s not about reading the book but about creating a sexy mood.

6. Watching Romantic or Erotic Movies: This can be a way to set a sexy mood and spend intimate time together, you may even want to recreate some of the sexy ideas you’ve seen in the movie.

7. Experimenting with New Outfits: Wearing lingerie or other sexy outfits/ gear can be a fun way to surprise and excite your partner.

8. Trying Out New Positions: Exploring different sexual positions can add variety and excitement to your intimate life. Remember this is adult play, have fun!

9. Using Toys: Bringing sex toys into your relationship can enhance pleasure and a deeper feeling of connection.

10. Communicating Fantasies: Sharing and even role playing fantasies can be fun, bring couples closer and build trust. If you don’t have any fantasies you can think of, ask Google for some ideas.

Remember, it’s important that in an intimate relationship there is mutual consent, respect, and open communication about what sounds fun and what is not an option. It’s important that you are comfortable and enthusiastic about any activities you choose to try out. Enjoy!!